He couldn’t really be that small?

Ok, so my wife said I needed to add a couple photos to the blog to show my size in order to show I can relate to all the topics and questions.  It is not for exhibitionist purposes as this blog is for educational purposes.

My erect size is 3.8 inches.

Here is one with the toilet paper roll test, and the other with a mini liquor bottle.



Goals For This Blog

For my wife and I, our goal is to help others with any advice we can.  We hope you can achieve a  better sex life through communication and/or using alternative methods.   Some may wonder how to talk to their partners about their size without hurting anyone’s ego.  Issues can arise like condoms slipping off, or how not to hurt anyone’s feelings when you want to purchase that large vibrator or dildo.

Single men are also more than welcome to ask for advice.

We are not licensed counselors or any of the such, we are just a couple who has been married over 20 years and have worked around my small penis in order to have a wild and crazy sex life.

“C” (wifey) and “R” (hubby)

Wow, This Guy Admits To Having A Very Small Penis!

So as it says in my profile information, I’m a 40-something married white Male with a penis less than 4 inches erect.  3.8 inches to be exact.  As far as girth, I’m also very thin.   If doing the toilet paper roll test, there is plenty of room to spare with my penis inside it, and no, it does not come out the other end.   Actually a toilet paper roll is 4.25 inches long.

I know this sounds crazy, but yes it’s true.

So why would a guy admit this to everyone?   Well, luckily I have always had a lot of self-confidence and instead of letting it become a complex, I embraced it.  Maybe because I am an Engineer, I tend to research everything and look for a solution.

My wife and I always had a good sex life though she never had a vaginal orgasm.  That is until she came across a large vibrator.  That changed everything.  She tried to make it seem as though it was no big deal so as to not hurt my feelings.  It did not.  I was just as excited that she could finally orgasm!
Instead of having a complex, I just admitted to her that I knew my penis was small.  Of course, she said the typical “no it’s just right” speech.  I just said, that it was ok, it didn’t bother me at all.  Then she admitted that possibly her body just required larger, thus the large vibrator.

Now our world changed!  Our sex life improved for the better and it actually was a major relief for me when she admitted I was too small for her.   I had always stressed a lot about not being able to provide her the pleasure that I wanted to.  I always had performance anxiety.  That all ended that day.

Does that mean we do not have intercourse?  Of course not.  We now just have many creative avenues with our sex life.  And I no longer have to stress out about trying to make her orgasm vaginally as we know it is not going to happen, but if does, great!  So instead I became an expert in using toys, oral, and fingers to bring her to multiple orgasms.

Basically, sex should not be stressful, but relaxing and pleasurable.  We both enjoy it now, by being creative and through alternative means.