Panties: He said he wears them to support his smaller size?


          Panties:  He said he wears them to support his smaller size?

We received a question from a wife, concerned, when she found out her husband is wearing panties.
Her first thought, “Is he gay or a crossdresser?”

First off, who cares what kind, color, or brand of underwear your husband wants to wear….its just underwear, silly.  Plain and simple.  Him wearing panties no more makes him gay or a crossdresser than it does you for wearing his boxers or his button down shirt.  It’s just underwear.  It’s not like anyone other than you are going to see them.

If you are worried someone might accidentally see the waistband of his panties or anything of the like, don’t be.  Most likely no one would think anything of it.  If someone ever did mention to you they thought he was wearing panties, and you felt the need to converse with them about it.  Just tell them “No, they are actually sexy men’s undies I bought him”.  I’m sure the conversation would just end there.  Search for “men’s nylon bikini underwear”.  You’ll pull up thousands of styles, colors, etc. of men’s bikini underwear that looks very similar to women’s panties.

Underwear has nothing to do with your husbands masculinity.  It’s just underwear.  Instead of worrying about it, just embrace it.  You can have fun and joke with him about it.  “Hey honey, don’t get your…..panties in a bunch”, or “You must have your panties wound too tight this morning”.  Or you can take the sexy approach, “Oooh, honey, looking sexy in those tonight”, especially if he is in a bad mood.  Any sexual comment from our wives seems to turn us from bad mood, to good mood which is just how we men are wired.  Again, it’s just underwear.

So to ultimately answer your question.  Could he be wearing them to support his smaller size?

Some men prefer boxers, some briefs, some both.  Sometimes you might prefer boxers to go “free-balling”, then other days, want a little support, especially while exercising or being active.

Here is a test for the wives.  One day, take a small cloth bag and put two golf balls and a mini tube of toothpaste into the bag.  Strap or tape the bag to the front your panties and walk around doing your normal activities for the day.  You will find many times everything in the bag gets squished or just flat  get in the way.  Now go walk around the block, do the elliptical or yoga.  The bag and its contents will swing and bounce all over the place which can make things uncomfortable.  Its no different than you wearing a jog bra while exercising.

So yes, he might want bikini, brief, thong, whatever type of underwear for support.  Jock straps absolutely suck.  They tend to smash everything into your body in order to support your package.  Very uncomfortable!  Tighty-whitey” briefs suck, as they stretch out too much in the first hour of wearing them.

So now we come to men’s bikini or brief underwear designed with a pouch in the front.  Most are designed very similar to women’s panties, made of nylon/spandex or microfiber, they just have a pouch in the front for our package.  So basically panties with a pouch in front.

For less-endowed men, that pouch can be too large, losing the support.  So now, there are many women’s panties that are very soft, light and stretchy.   They are designed to be flat in the front, but can stretch to accommodate a mans smaller package, and be quite form fitting, thus providing great support.

So yes, the panties can be strictly for comfort and support.  He might wear them for a variety of reasons, wear a variety of styles or colors of them, but it boils down to
“Its just underwear, who cares”.

PS.  The panties I wore to demonstrate are “C’s” Hanes Her Way microfiber panties.  High-cut brief.  They are a very thin, light, stretchy material.  You can tell from the photos, they conform very well to my tiny package, but also stretch very well when needed.  And if your are small, you still stay in the panties while they stretch which is nice.


2 thoughts on “Panties: He said he wears them to support his smaller size?”

  1. I've always felt this way about the pouch male underwear. Typical male underwear is designed with average and well-endowed guys in mind. The lack of a pouch in panties tend to "support" those of us who don't have much to work with (this is especially true for those of us whose penis spends most of its time as an innie). For many of us, panties feel much more comfortable than a pair of underwear with a pocket that we could never fill.

  2. On Saturday I found a pair of panties in my fiancés closet. Immediately I became angry assuming he was cheating on me, until he showed me a locked box with quite a few pairs, all the same size, and his. While I felt relieved he was not cheating, I was bewildered as to why he would wear women’s panties. He pulled up your blog and this post. Your explanation was right on target. He also is lesser endowed and wears them for their comfort. I just wanted to say you blog is a great source of information and we look forward to more posts. It would be nice to have more posts from your wife’s perspective for those of us female readers. Thank you again!

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