I received the following message from a wife and reader of this blog.
“I purchased some new sex toys and the free item the company sent, was a penis extension,
that can be used over a vibrator or a mans penis, to make it thicker. I put it on my new vibrator and loved it! I have found with the added girth, I am having mind blowing orgasms. Now the downside. I mentioned this to my husband and he thought it was great. So I suggested we put it on his penis and try that also. He went from excited, to having a bruised ego. To make matters worse, his penis is too small to keep the extension on him. I have told him his penis is perfect and does make me orgasm sometimes. How can I get out of this fog I have created?”
Just let him know the vibrator feels wonderful by itself, but the added girth just increased the pleasure, but you are happy either way. Next time you are both feeling frisky, tell him he does not have to try the extension again, but if he decided he wanted to, just wink at him and say something like, “I might just have to do a little oral on you as compensation”. Sounds silly, but he might just think, “oh heck, I’ll do anything for that”.
Just reassure him his size works and that you are always willing to try new things he wants to try. Within reason of course.
As you mentioned the penis extension its too large in circumference to stay on his penis, we also had the same issue. “C” mentioned trying some of the finger sleeves which can be an extension for the smaller penis. Also, he could put on one of the finger sleeves or a couple rubber finger rings, then put the regular extension on. That could pad the extra room and allow it to stay on.
Keep me informed how it goes and thanks for the question.