You Let Your Wife Have Sex With Other Men?


“The Surrogate Dick”

We had been married about 10 years and I knew “C” gave all to me sexually and I realized I could not give all she needed.  Sure we used toys, and I could use my fingers and tongue…..but she had not been able to experience a great orgasm via intercourse.  Once while visiting a friend of hers in Las Vegas, she mentioned to “C” that she had a male friend who gave mind blowing orgasms.  I decided to tell her, hey, lets try and see if he can give you one.  Then maybe you will know how they feel and we can then work towards you having more.

Well, she smiled and thanked me in some very great ways.  🙂 . I sat and watched her with the other guy and she had more orgasms than we could both count.  And she learned they were so intense, that she squirts.   Boy did that kick start a higher sex drive for “C”.  Luckily “C” was finally honest with me that my penis was too small to satisfy her, but she said this in a nice way.  She reassured me that it was ok, we can just keep trying new things.  At this point I told her maybe if we just bring in another guy for her to be able to orgasm.  Basically it would be a living dildo for her.  She agreed.

We found she can easily have multiple orgasms and very intense with the other men, almost all the time.  So we found a long term friends with benefits for her and decided to call him the “Surrogate Dick”, which means he is nothing more than a living dildo to provide her orgasms.  So for the last 15 years we have typically had various long term Surrogate Dick’s for her to enjoy.

So what do I get out of this?  The more orgasms she has with the Surrogate Dick the higher her sex drive stays, and the more sex and yes, blowjobs I get.  Win-Win situation for both of us.  And yes, I love to watch her with the Surrogate Dick or SD.  Would she let me sleep with other women?  Sure, but I choose not to, as she can provide me many orgasms.

So how does she meet the SD’s?  We have found them through a couple swinger sites. She can hook up with whoever and whenever she desires.  As long as either I get to watch or she tells me all about it afterwards.  Only once has it been a spur of the moment thing so far.  We do have a current long term SD who happened to be a friend of ours.  We met him via a swinger site only to learn during our chatting, that we actually knew each other.

I love “C” a lot, and she satisfies me sexually, more than I could ask for.   So I feel grateful to be able to allow her to be satisfied sexually which for her, requires a large penis.

This arrangement may not be for everyone.  We don’t judge others, so we don’t care if others thing this is not right.  It works for us.

Below are some comparison pics of “C” and me, and then her with an SD.

Everyone is asking where “C” got her robe for the shaving post

We got tons of emails asking where “C” got her robe she is wearing in the previous post on shaving.  She purchased it from Adore Me online.

She has graciously offered to let me post a better photo of the robe, which I think most of us men will love and the wives can see what it looks like on a non-model on their website.


Shaving Down Under: Will it appear larger?

A lot of articles say that shaving your pubic hair will help make your small penis appear larger.  Well, since I usually stay shaven, I let the hair grow out a bit to see.  Well, since my penis flacid is only about 1/2 inch, you definately could not see it.  When erect I am 3.8 inches so the hair tends to cover about half.

When shaven you can now see all of my penis, so I guess it would look larger than if I had hair.  Though lucky for me ,my penis is fairly tiny to begin with, so shaved, or not shaved, does not really make a difference.  For me it does not matter, though I think “C” likes both of us shaven.   Sorry, I did not mean to include “C’s” boobs but I can not crop the photos and them still look centered.