You Let Your Wife Have Sex With Other Men?


“The Surrogate Dick”

We had been married about 10 years and I knew “C” gave all to me sexually and I realized I could not give all she needed.  Sure we used toys, and I could use my fingers and tongue…..but she had not been able to experience a great orgasm via intercourse.  Once while visiting a friend of hers in Las Vegas, she mentioned to “C” that she had a male friend who gave mind blowing orgasms.  I decided to tell her, hey, lets try and see if he can give you one.  Then maybe you will know how they feel and we can then work towards you having more.

Well, she smiled and thanked me in some very great ways.  🙂 . I sat and watched her with the other guy and she had more orgasms than we could both count.  And she learned they were so intense, that she squirts.   Boy did that kick start a higher sex drive for “C”.  Luckily “C” was finally honest with me that my penis was too small to satisfy her, but she said this in a nice way.  She reassured me that it was ok, we can just keep trying new things.  At this point I told her maybe if we just bring in another guy for her to be able to orgasm.  Basically it would be a living dildo for her.  She agreed.

We found she can easily have multiple orgasms and very intense with the other men, almost all the time.  So we found a long term friends with benefits for her and decided to call him the “Surrogate Dick”, which means he is nothing more than a living dildo to provide her orgasms.  So for the last 15 years we have typically had various long term Surrogate Dick’s for her to enjoy.

So what do I get out of this?  The more orgasms she has with the Surrogate Dick the higher her sex drive stays, and the more sex and yes, blowjobs I get.  Win-Win situation for both of us.  And yes, I love to watch her with the Surrogate Dick or SD.  Would she let me sleep with other women?  Sure, but I choose not to, as she can provide me many orgasms.

So how does she meet the SD’s?  We have found them through a couple swinger sites. She can hook up with whoever and whenever she desires.  As long as either I get to watch or she tells me all about it afterwards.  Only once has it been a spur of the moment thing so far.  We do have a current long term SD who happened to be a friend of ours.  We met him via a swinger site only to learn during our chatting, that we actually knew each other.

I love “C” a lot, and she satisfies me sexually, more than I could ask for.   So I feel grateful to be able to allow her to be satisfied sexually which for her, requires a large penis.

This arrangement may not be for everyone.  We don’t judge others, so we don’t care if others thing this is not right.  It works for us.

Below are some comparison pics of “C” and me, and then her with an SD.

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"R" (hubby)

We are a couple in our late 40's where the husband has an extra small penis. We have been married almost 25 years and have several wonderful children. Luckily we learned there not much that can be done about penis size, and he decided to just embrace being small. He figures, why have a complex about something you can not change. Our hopes are to help foster support for singles or couples, that are dealing with this issue not from a pyschological perspective, but from a logical one. To help share things we have overcome and hopefully learn new things from others' experiences, from both the husband and wives.

2 thoughts on “You Let Your Wife Have Sex With Other Men?”

  1. Someone mentioned your site via another discussion board im on. Just wanted to kudos for you both for being so brave to put this out. My marriage failed not due to his small penis, but his lack of willingness to try things. I guess he felt as long has he orgasmed, things were great. I have had no trouble with sex with other men. I loved him and would have stuck it out no matter his smaller size, if he would have jsut been willing to allow os to at least bring toys into the bedroom. He felt there was no need. Just wanted to say glad there are men out there who love their wives so much they are willing to do anything for them. 🙁

    1. Hi and thank you for posting. I’m sorry about your marriage. Yes its selfish for one to only think about their own needs and not worry whether or not their spouse is enjoying sex, no matter what the penis size. I think some men worry about bringing toys into the bedroom due to insecurities. Kind of like the wife telling her husband, “I don’t think you need to masturbate anymore since you have me”. Toys are their to enhance their sex life. Even our using a Surrogate Dick, is only there to enhance our sex life. Believe me, when wifey gets home or I come home after she has been with the SD, she definately provides me with quite the sexy time. I hope your future partners, no matter their size, are willing to do things to enhance your sex life. Good luck and thank you for posting.

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