Benefits of a Cuckolding Relationship

A cuckold relationship is one where the husband allows his wife to have sex with other men and the husband only desires to have sex with his wife.  Yesterday CNN wrote an article that cuckolding can be very positive for a couple who have great communication and a great relationship already.

For my wife and I, we enjoyed sex together, though we knew my penis was too small for her as she could not feel me inside.  She was ok with this for 10 years.  Then we had the opportunity for her to experience another very well endowed man.  She learned many new things including she had the ability to have lots of multiple orgasms with a larger penis.

So what are the benefits for me, the husband?   Well I found watching her with the other male was so hot and erotic that it was the greatest turn-on.  This was not like just being a voyeur and watching a live porno.  I was being a voyeur and watching my wife’s facial expressions and body language, and listening to how vocal she was.  To see and watch her in the throws of ecstasy was the most amazing thing.

One might think, didn’t it bother you that she enjoyed his penis but not yours?  Of course not.  The reason is, it wasn’t about me and my abilities.  She can make me orgasm over and over.  Finally I found I was able to provide her with many mind blowing orgasms.  We just happen to use a Surrogate Dick, to do it.

I love her very much and this is something I can offer her.  That provides me a great benefit.  Also, after they are done, her and I are able to have great sex without the added pressure of me trying to make her orgasm vaginally.

For her benefits, she gets to experience sexual freedom.  She can enjoy mild-blowing sex with other men and know I will always be there for her.   The other men find her attractive and sexy and tell her so often.  What is more sexy for a woman than having other men desire her and telling her how much they desire her.  She can have sex with whomever and whenever the opportunity presents itself and she knows I support her 100% with that.

For us as a couple.  In order to even talk about cuckolding, we had to have good communication.  In the last 12 to 15 years we have been living this lifestyle, our communication really opened up.  We have great communication and trust in our relationship.  Someone close to us is going through tough times for her marriage and she said to me.  She just wished they had better communication.  For us, cuckolding increased our communication 1000%.

If may not be for everyone, but it has worked well for our 25 year marriage.  And for those people close to us that are aware of this, they have all said, they wish they could have the same relationship.  Its all a about love, trust, and communication.

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We are a couple in our late 40's where the husband has an extra small penis. We have been married almost 25 years and have several wonderful children. Luckily we learned there not much that can be done about penis size, and he decided to just embrace being small. He figures, why have a complex about something you can not change. Our hopes are to help foster support for singles or couples, that are dealing with this issue not from a pyschological perspective, but from a logical one. To help share things we have overcome and hopefully learn new things from others' experiences, from both the husband and wives.

3 thoughts on “Benefits of a Cuckolding Relationship”

  1. I am happy to see a man who empowers his wife!
    We started doing the same thing about 5 years ago as my husband wanted me to enjoy the gift of orgasms. I was happy doing other things to orgasm but I felt honored he would offer this to me. He said he had no interest in sex with other women, just me. The first time as a litter interesting, but once I saw how much he enjoyed watching me, we both felt very comfortable.

    Its funny cause I had never heard the word cuckolding until the press started using it not long ago. My husband said, thats what we do. I had to look it up. Lol

    By the way, your wife is beautiful not only on the outside, but inside for being a part of a great relationship. I to believe, whatever works for a couple is great for them.

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